Monthly Archives: September 2019

Book Review: The Tracker (by Tom Brown Jr)

Tom Sawyer meets Native American Wisdom

Deeply inspiring auto-biographical book, covering the real life adventures of the author whilst living on the edge of the Pine Barrens wilderness area of New Jersey.

82 year old Lipan Apache “Stalking Wolf”, (who had avoided reservation life, and got his name by stalking and touching a Wolf) had his lifetime prophecy/vision realised when he saw the 8 year old Tom playing by the river in 1958.

A ten year apprenticeship commenced, where Stalking Wolf imparted his 82 years worth of earth and spiritual based wisdom into eager participants Tom and his friend Rick.

Split into 21 easily readable chapters, this shortish book covers concepts like the inter-connectedness of, and value of concentric circles in the forest, how the mice can be great teachers, the mythical “Jersey Devil”, and learning how to change ones relationship to the cold.

Several gripping, page turning chapters include encounters with packs of wild dogs (Tom has to think about dog pack and lead dog psychology and use great ingenuity and physical prowess to get away after 72 hours stuck in a tree) , an encounter with an angry bear, an extermination, a revenge against inconsidered humans, and the life or death tracking of a mentally impaired adult who is lost in the Pine Barrens.

This book is for anyone who wants to reconnect to what we might have lost in our materalistic, scientific, evidence based world. It provides a window into how a continent used to live for tens of thousands of years until recently

I found this book was one that lived contentedly in my dreams. I bought several copies and wanted to give them away and enthusiatically wanted to tell the stories within it (without giving away the endings of course!).

I also felt sadness for what has been lost in terms of my understanding of nature and spirit and my natural environment.

However I think that a master novelist couldn’t match the impact of some of these chapters. I’ve never been much of a reader but perhaps i’ve just been reading the wrong books…….

(this is a copy of a review I wrote on Amazon)

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Women/Partners view of: A Band of Brothers on their 10 year Anniversary

A Band of Brothers: (Charity) Video of 10 year Anniversary

Women/Partners speak about witnessing the impact of, and their support of the men who participate in the running of A Band of Brothers. A National Charity providing Rites of Passage, Mentoring, Sitting in Circle for men of all ages. It has now been running for 10 years.

Click Below for a video of their 10 year celebration when they met in the countryside recently. Video is made up of several testimonies from the women who support their partners participation in this charity. The men can’t do this without their partners support

A Band of Brothers 10 year Anniversary YouTube video

A Band of Brothers: (Charity) Video of 10 year Anniversary

Starting Counselling: What is it like?

First session of Counselling. What is it like?

The first session is a chance for you to see what it is like to be able to talk and someone listen without interruption or judgement or unwanted advice giving. For some people it might be the first time that they have had an experience of being listened to in an uninterrupted way. If you have a busy life then Counselling can be a time free of distractions where you can check in with yourself.


Counselling can last anything from 1 session to many years. There is no obligation to continue. You can ask questions and have an experience of how it works.

All counsellors can remember what it was like when they went for their own first session of counselling, so are thoughtful and aware that this might be the case for you too.

I offer reduced price first sessions at £30 for individuals and £40 for couples.
Please get back to me with any questions

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